Choose gifts that stay with you for life, not empty transfers.
Sharing your IBAN always feels a little awkward. And not sharing it doesn't work either - someone ends up asking for it over WhatsApp anyway. Here you never have to share it yourselves: each guest only sees it once they choose their gift, and the money goes straight from their bank to yours - we never touch it.
A wedding shouldn't feel like a transaction.
It's the list you build yourselves - not a gift card that only works in one shop. Every guest chooses with excitement, leaves a message, and that message stays with the gift forever.
However many guests you have, the same thing happens every time: they open your link, choose, write their message. No account to create, no password to remember - just the link.
What does The Wedding Gift List solve?
Just putting your IBAN out there feels very transactional, like you're forcing people to give you a gift.
A gift list feels much warmer: everyone chooses something real, with excitement, instead of an empty transfer.
If you don't put your IBAN on your site, you end up with two hundred guests asking over WhatsApp.
You don't need to put it on the invitation or the site - it shows up as soon as someone chooses a gift.
You're tied to one shop, where the money only works in their catalogue.
The money goes straight to your account, you spend it wherever you like, comparing prices across shops, not just one.
Personal notes get lost in the transfer's reference field.
We keep them all, and you get a PDF at the end so you can hold on to them.
You don't know who to thank without checking the bank every day to see who's given you something.
You get a list of who's given a gift, and can keep track of who you've already thanked.
Someone picks a gift and then never gets around to transferring the money.
We email the guest to remind them to finish the transfer, so the gift they picked actually becomes real. The next step will be letting them transfer straight from the site, without leaving for their bank.
You build the list. They give in three steps.
Creating your list
- 1
Create your list in a couple of minutes
- 2
Add gifts, experiences, or a general fund - with photos and a short note on why each one matters to you
- 3
Share your private link with your guests
- 4
When you're done, we send you a PDF with every message you were left - to keep, or read again whenever you like
Giving something
- 1
Open the list
- 2
Choose what to give - the whole thing, or a part of it
- 3
Leave a message, then make the transfer directly from their own bank
The first ten gifts are free. After that, €25. Once.
It's not a subscription, it won't come back, no small print: it's what lets us pay for servers and keep improving this bit by bit, with no ads.
0% commission on your gifts.
If you're not happy with it, we'll give it back. No questions asked.
A short story.
I got married in September 2025, and as it tends to happen, everyone kept asking what to put on the list.
Sharing our IBAN felt a little awkward. And not sharing it didn't solve anything either: someone would ask for it over WhatsApp anyway.
We wanted something that wasn't the classic department-store list, with the money trapped in their catalogue.
What we'd really have wanted was this: every guest choosing something with a name on it, and their message staying attached to that gift forever - not lost in a two-hundred-message thread.
And knowing who had given us what, without cross-referencing the bank statement with the guest list.
So we built it ourselves.